Polyamory & Ethical Non-Monogamy Counselling
In Hertfordshire & Online Across the UK
Polyamory and ethical non-monogamy can offer deeply meaningful, expansive ways of relating, but they can also bring challenges that many therapists don’t fully understand.
You may be navigating multiple relationships, questioning what you want, or feeling the impact of expectations shaped by a largely monogamous world. Therapy can offer a space to explore this openly, without judgement or assumptions.
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I’m Kevyn Hopkins-Hall, a queer, kink-aware, BACP-registered counsellor with experience working with polyamory and diverse relationship structures.
You won’t need to explain or justify your relationships here. I offer an affirming space where ethical non-monogamy is understood as a valid way of relating, not something to be fixed or pathologised.
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Common Reasons People Seek Polyamory Counselling
You might be:
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Exploring whether polyamory or ethical non-monogamy is right for you
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Transitioning from a monogamous relationship
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Navigating jealousy, insecurity, or comparison
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Managing communication across multiple relationships
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Setting or renegotiating boundaries and agreements
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Working through breaches of trust
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Feeling misunderstood or unsupported by others
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Trying to understand your needs, desires, and relationship style
Whatever brings you, we can work at your pace to make sense of your experience.
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How I Can Support You
In our work together, we might explore:
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What kind of relationships feel right for you
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How to communicate needs, boundaries, and emotions clearly
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Understanding and working with jealousy and compersion
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Navigating differences between partners
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Building trust and repairing ruptures
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Developing relationship agreements that feel realistic and supportive
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Making sense of identity, attachment, and patterns in relationships
My approach is person-centred, meaning we focus on what matters most to you, in a way that feels safe and manageable.
Why Work With Me
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I am a queer, kink-aware therapist with experience in ethical non-monogamy
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I offer a non-pathologising, affirming approach
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I understand the complexity of non-traditional relationships
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I work with the intersection of identity, relationships, and neurodivergence
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You won’t need to educate me about polyamory or justify your choices
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Who I Work With
I work with:
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Individuals
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People in relationships (including multiple partners where appropriate)
Sessions can focus on your individual experience, or on relationship dynamics.
FAQs
Is polyamory something therapy can help with?
Yes, therapy can help you explore whether polyamory feels right for you, as well as support you in navigating the challenges that can arise within it.
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Can you help with jealousy in polyamorous relationships?
Yes, jealousy is a common, understandable, and natural experience. We can explore where it comes from and how to work with it in a way that feels constructive.
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Do you work with couples or multiple partners?
I can work with individuals and people in relationships. We can discuss what would work best for your situation.
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Do I have to identify as queer to work with you?
No. I specialise in queer and non-traditional relationships, I work with anyone exploring polyamory or ethical non-monogamy.
Location & Sessions
I offer:
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In-person counselling in Hertfordshire (Baldock area)
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Online therapy across the UK
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Get in Touch
If you’re looking for a therapist who understands polyamory and ethical non-monogamy, you’re welcome to get in touch.
We can arrange an initial conversation to see if working together feels like the right fit.